Thought Binding
"The first key to understanding Thought Binding is to
recognise that people are basically hypnosis machines. If you tell their
minds in what direction to move will absolutely DO IT EVERYTIME because people are not use to hearing these kinds of instructions. People are used to hearing babbling about content, in other words, reasons, data and facts, and that kind of stuff they can, do and WILL resist. But binding the direction of their thoughts? NEVER! Let me give you an example. Suppose their is some very nice young girl you want to impress. You could tell her lots of stuff about you. Ya know, say something dumb like:
"Well lots of women like me because I'm smart and funny and make good money, but other's find it's my honesty and looks that they are attracted to".
Yeah. Right. Well, problem is, you are tossing those facts, reasons and info at her, and like as not, she's heard this a zillion times before and isn't gonna buy it. If you must use an approach like this, why not bind the direction of her thoughts first? You'd do it like this:
"Hey, did you ever meet someone, and just instantly knew that you had to get to know this person better (point to yourself)? Maybe as you went inside and really got all excited about how much fun it'd be to get to know him and how curious and intrigued you were feeling? As you REMEMBER THOSE FEELINGS AS WE'RE TALKING, I'm just curious, do you first imagine how much fun they'd be to hang out with, and then get intrigued, or do you get intrigued first and then imagine how much fun this person would be (point to yourself)?"
Now, what are you doing here? You're setting up a mood and state of mind that's going to make her a lot more receptive by:
1. Having her recall what it's like to be in the mood you want her in (setting up the thought direction).
2. Giving her a command to STAY IN THAT MOOD WHILE SHE TALKS WITH YOU by using the phrase "as you remember those feelings as we're talking" (Binding the thought direction).
You've now set her up to be MUCH MORE RECEPTIVE to any "facts" about yourself you want to throw because you've set up and BOUND the direction of her thinking and emotional processes. From here on out, unless you are very stupid, she's dead meat. And the beauty is THEY NEVER CATCH IT, cause they aren't used to hearing it or looking for it. They just know they find you mesmerising, hypnotically fascinating and irresistibly attractive:) Notice also that we end by asking them about the order in which they did the process. That's to further mask the fact that we are giving commands by making it seem like the only reason we brought it up in the first place is we we're genuinely interested in learning about them! Ha! Are we sneaks, or what? By the way, the phrase "AS YOU REMEMBER"... is what we call a pre-supposition. A pre-supposition is just anything that HAS to be ASSUMED to be true in order for the sentence to make sense and be understood. Thus, with "AS YOU REMEMBER", the presupposition is that they WILL remember. Slick, isn't it?
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