The Questions
Here's a sample list of questions to use to elicit her values and trance
words.
What she wants?- What she likes?
- What she thinks she needs?
- What she thinks she deserves?
- What she had in the past that she wants to repeat?
- What she had in the past that she wants to avoid?
- What scares her?
- What makes her happy?
- What makes her feel sexy?
Ask the right questions, don't try to push her towards some specific state (like excitement for example), it might mean nothing to her. ASF: "Realise that "do you value excitement in your life?" is a useless question compared to "what do you value?"
Here are some additional questions you can ask, that might be a little less value-eliciting oriented, but helpful nevertheless. They'll help you to get to know to her and should also put her in an altered state by making her dig up answers for these from deep within her consciousness and subconscious.
- "What are the challenges in her line of work / what are the easy parts / what she likes / what she doesn't like about her job?"
- "What is the most unusual thing you've done when playing "truth or dare"?" Hopefully she comes up with some sexual stuff:)
- "How do your friends describe you?" Use this both for value-eliciting and as prep info for palm-reading, after which you can say "Let me see, whether you actually are like that as well" and transition to palm-reading. See "Palm-reading" and "Palm-reading explained" for more details.
- "What do you think I am like?" You'll get useful feedback on how you're doing and how she perceives you:)
- "Your first childhood memory?" If its positive, anchor it, and even if its just neutral, never mind that, in her mind she sees herself as opening up to you when telling you about such stuff:)
- "Your most pleasant / sweetest memory from school?" Hopefully has something to do with a guy, anchor it:) If not, be more specific.
- "Your first day at school?" Same as with "first childhood memory", but don't use it before the "sweetest memory from school" - it would make it too easy for her to answer "well, my first day at school was it" and avoid any possible romantic memories:)
- "In what period of your life where you most popular?" Have her remember the "good times":)
- "Do you remember the first time you fell seriously, completely and helplessly in love:) How did it happen?"
- "The happiest moment of your life?"
- "What role would you like to play in some movie?"
- "Achieving what goals in your life have brought you the most joy?"
- "How well do you know yourself?"
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