Stunning Approach
"One of the best approaches I've ever used for meeting women is just to be
incredibly direct, but also VERY low key. This combination exerts an almost
HYPNOTIC fascination. So, for example, if I spot a woman I find attractive, in a low-key, but direct way, I'll walk up to her and say.
"Excuse me (you're not really excusing yourself for making her feel really-really good in just a moment, you're giving her a command to stop whatever she's doing and pay attention to you, you can alternatively use "Forgive me for interrupting you" telling her to interrupt her train of thought and focus all her attention on you, seemingly in order for her to be able to determine whether or not to forgive you:), I just wanted to tell you.....(pause a second or two for effect...they will begin to wonder "what???.. what does he want to tell me?") I think you're absolutely stunning....and I really wanted to meet you. (Pause again)"
""My name's …...." I then extend my hand and shake theirs!
What makes this approach work?
* You are being DIRECT, with no excuses or apologies. This RADIATES confidence.
* It's done LOW KEY! I talk SLOWLY...no rushing....I'm radiating, affinity, warmth and relaxed power instead of need or horniness.
When you do this, it doesn't matter that a moment before she was obsessing on that overdue bill or her yeast infection. You've got her attention BIG TIME!
Now you can put her on a "sense of adventure" test by using a little intrusion. What does this mean? Simply...you need to intrude SLIGHTLY...and I do mean S-L-I-G-H-T-L-Y on her personal space; not so much that she pulls back or runs or slaps you, but enough to make her wonder and get a bit excited. How do you do this? Well, when you take her hand to shake it... DON'T LET GO AFTERWARDS!!! Keep holding on as you continue to talk to her, looking straight in her eyes. Will SOME women pull their hands away? YOU BET! Maybe 30 to 40%. But never mind that. The one's that keep holding your hand for a moment longer though… have passed your "sense of adventure" test:) You have made them already slightly attracted to you in some 5 to 10 seconds from first meeting you:)"
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