Secrets
If you've ever wondered, how to reconcile the seeming discrepancy between
the two most common things you've heard about women, namely:
- women like mystery in a man
- women like to know secrets about a man
A short time ago there was a thread about revealing secrets as a way to gain rapport. IMHO this really is a great way to establish rapport, but it can be carried too far. I (and perhaps other women) like the idea of layers. Like peeling an onion, we like to think there is always more that we don't know yet. So, sharing a secret is fine as long as you convey the idea that there are lots more - and that you are willing to give some up for a price. I grow bored when I think I know all there is to know about someone."