Incredible Connection
Pattern 1 - a classic:) Also an important note, why patterns might not work
on some women.
This is the most classic and legendary of SS patterns. Partly because it is one of the oldest and partly because it is the most appropriate to use as your first pattern after having had some fluff talk with the girl you just met.
A very important note on the IC pattern (and even patterning in general) - there are women that are NOT into the feelings/connections stuff at all. So what's wrong with them? Nothing, they are just into SEX and getting down with you! Yes, believe it or not, there are women like that, just waiting to be discovered. Of course, they are a minority, otherwise you wouldn't be reading all this:) But they do exist and it is important to notice them in time and not to keep them waiting while you're busy delivering your patterns and trying to make her feel wonderful etc. You could just be shutting her down. So although they are a rarity and an exception, keep your eyes open because you never know when you just might find a gem like that:)
In the words of Ross Jeffries (Ross Jeffries): "Not all women will respond to "connection" patterns. Some women who are already emotionally occupied, but sexually bored, or shut down emotionally, but open sexually or just don't believe relationships are possible will still be very receptive to a "body sensation" approach." This actually means, that she won't be much moved by your descriptions of "emotional connections" but will be entrhalled, once you include feelings of bodily sensations in you patterns. But most probably they'd actually prefer to feel those bodily sensations instead of imagining them, and that is your cue to go kino:) (See Kinaesthetics for more information)
Nevertheless, the "incredible connection" theme has an almost universal appeal for women, se here's the pattern:
"In fact... just standing here... talking with you... I have an intuition... that when you connect with someone... someone you really like... someone you're really attracted to who makes you feel that click… right there... you know that sense of just feeling totally drawn... like you've known this person forever... like you were meant to know them.... a big part of it is that recognition that you can RELAX and laugh with this person… can you feel _that_ (touch her and achor the feeling)... is maybe how it works?"
From here you could for example transition to the Falling in Love pattern.
page 1 / 5 Next >