Getting the Date
No, you're not going to ask for a date. Movies, dinners (or… museums,
anyone?:) are for girls that have convinced you that they want you in a most
believeable fashion - by having done the fun with you (and I don't mean playing "Monopoly":).
But let's say you have #- or *closed a girl. You need to get in contact with her again, right? You could of course do patterns over the phone and have her rush horny to your doorstep. But it is infinitely better to meet her in person. So what you do, is suggest a get-together, preferably somewhere where you two can talk, see each other and touch each other undisturbed.
Just as your pick-up attempt must look like anything but a pick-up attempt, so must your asking for a "date" be anything but that. For that purpose it is recommended not to ask her for a get-together on a Friday or a Saturday night. Not that you shouldn't do it, but the time itself suggests a more date-like occasion, an image which is better avoided. If you nevertheless decide in favour of a Friday of Saturday night, keep in mind that the odds of her being busy are higher than on other nights, so she may have to turn you down, which could create some bad vibes. And it might tell her that you don't have anything (or anyone:) to do on the weekend (so don't forget to serve it as "the only few moments of free time" in your schedule:).
On the other hand, the benefits of arranging a meeting during the week are as follows:
- You imply that you are busy on the weekend. In other words, you are involved with other girls.
- The odds of her being available are greater.
- Weeknights imply a casual, no-pressure atmosphere which is good to get to know her (or rather, to get her to get to know you:).
- You have turned a dull weeknight into a good time for her - good vibes right off the bat.
Now that we've cleared that the "date" in "asking for a date" is not a date but a get-together, its time to reveal that neither is the "asking" asking but suggesting. You don't ask her for anything. You're giving her opportunities (like you didn't ask for her phone-number, you constructed her an opportunity of giving it to you). And you are just making suggestions ("We should meet / get-together. How about then and there?"). Don't make the mistake of putting her on the pedestal and grovelling before her begging and asking "please-please-please will you go out with me?", "oh please let's go on a date?", "oh please please do cum with me!":) If you ASK her to go out with you and she says "no", she won't even give it another thought (and don't be fooled by any excuses she might be giving you). But if you SUGGEST a casual meeting and offer her a time and place, she'll first have to think, what she's doing at that time, and if it turns out she's busy (she might very well be), she is much more likely to offer another time and / or another place. Either way, you're much more likely to get yourself your get-together:).
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